Why Aquarians are labelled as being cold & distant?
Aquarians are widely known for their ‘disappearing act. When an Aquarian disappears they will often without warning or explanation, cut off all contact and retreat into their own world. You’ll often be left wondering where did they go & what did you do wrong (which is why Aquarians are labelled as being cold & distant). The main reason for an Aquarians vanishing act is due to their need for space & freedom. Aquarians need their alone time to recharge, to think things through, to work on their ideas and to soothe their overthinking / over-analysing. When an Aquarian disappears / hibernates it is vital that you give them the space that they need, the worst thing that you could do would be to constantly check up on them, demand an explanation or make them feel guilty (it will only cause them to isolate themselves even further). However at some level an Aquarian secretly wants you to notice their absence and for you to find them & prove that you care, however please respect their need for space. Its important that you understand that Aquarians aren’t necessarily running away from you, they’re often just running away from themselves & their own feelings (especially in relationships). Aquarians often fear not being good enough, fear being hurt or hurting another, fear being needed by another and they especially fear losing their freedom / independence. Once an aquarian begins to find balance & consistency, their desire to ‘disappear’ without warning, will begin to subside.